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MAY . . . Your Life Be Wonderful!

Baskets of Joy from www.MothersWhoDream.com
and author, Sheri McGregor

Late May, 2002 issue
Mothers Who Dream

Welcome to another issue of Mothers Who Dream! Congratulations on pursuing your dreams! 
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         "Nothing splendid was ever achieved, except by those who dared believe that something inside of them was superior to circumstance."       
                                        Bruce Barton

Wonder Woman Has Left the Building
By Sheri McGregor
 

Recently, a woman wrote to me, seeking ways to pursue her personal dreams while still taking care of her children and household. I thought about this for a while and decided on that my advice to her is the same as I tell all women: let go of old ideals, and give yourself new standards to live by.

For years, I told people I was Wonder Woman. It seemed the logical answer to the routine question, "How do you do it?" I received from almost everyone I met. How else could a mother of five have a successful career of her own, run her husband's business office, and still be walking (and wearing a smile)?

But as my own goals and dreams became bigger priorities, the less time I had available. To stay sane (and happy), I had to dismiss the notion that I could do it all. Now, whenever I get an inkling of guilt, I tell myself, "Wonder Woman has left the building." It's my way of changing expectations so that I can feel good about who I am and what I do.

Read on in the "Feel Good Articles" section to find out why this works for me, and decide whether you can utilize a similar reminder.

To continue reading, see:
"
Wonder Woman Has Left the Building."

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Help us grow to 10,000 subscribers this year by forwarding this newsletter with a brief personal note to friends and colleagues you believe will benefit. Thank you!

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PLACES TO GO, THINGS TO SEE and DO.

Each issue, I will try to highlight sites I find beneficial, enlightening, or just plain fun.  

This month, I'm recommending two sites which feature contests that go right along with MWD's empowerment / mothering theme.

Try your hand at winning a T-shirt by visiting www.saywhynot.com and sharing your story of facing obstacles and succeeding. According to site founder, Julie Wininger, we each hold inside us the Power of Why Not!  

Write a heartfelt letter to your mother for your own enlightenment and the possibility of prizes. Visit:
www.LettersFromTheHeartProject.com

Previously profiled at MWD was author Martha Lawrence. The story of her mother's gift to her after her demise has been included in the new book, Feathers Brush My Heart. You can find a link to more about the book here at MWD.

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LETTERS / MWD NOT FOR WOMEN ONLY:

A woman pursuing her dream of writing says about the Profile of Rebecca Marshall-Courtois: "Great article, Sheri. Excerpt:  'And through positive thinking, belief in her abilities, and hard work, she achieved what she set out to do.' Rebecca, what awesome and inspirational accomplishments, so you can't help but be an awesome person.  Congratulations and way to go." 
                                                                                       
– Debbie L.

A woman from California writes: "What a fantastic article in your May issue.  This newsletter is such an inspiration.  Thanks for all the work you put into it."                            -- Martha L.

I love getting these letters from women who tell me MWD's profiles and articles are inspirational. But wait, I'm learning that Mothers Who Dream is not just for women!

A gentleman writes: "Just wanted to tell you I checked out your website, 'Mothers Who Dream,' and was very impressed by it. Not being a mother (obviously), I don't always give much thought to these matters, but it was certainly eye-opening. All those you profiled deserve admiration for struggling against great odds---and you especially for telling their story! Very inspiring to all---I hope the site really takes off. A book sounds like a great idea, too, the kind of thing that could become a bestseller!"  -- Gene S.

Thanks, Gene! A Mothers Who Dream book is in the works. (I hope you're right about the bestseller part!) 

And another gentleman who has found MWD writes this (an inspirational message all its own): "I loved the new edition!  The women you highlight . . . are the answer to the epidemic that has taken America.  And the epidemic is what I call 'Self-Identity Loss.' Too many young ladies become well adapted to being a mother and a wife. But in the process of adapting to these life changes they forget who they are. Or sometimes they put aside their dreams to allow children and husbands to pursue their dreams.  Too many times I have seen women trying to discover themselves.  Which is fine, but why wait to do this when the last child has
graduated? I have met too many women who have the same stories: *I was going to college to be a journalist but I got married. *I was going to finish college when the kids got older, but now I am too old. The list goes on and on.  This is a crime!

"Love and relationship are words that mean shared everything.  That means shared:  responsibility, tears, sweat, commitment, hopes, dreams, and

inspiration.


"These women you have highlighted are an inspiration to all women.  They prove you can be mom, wife, and still maintain the integrity of self!  To do otherwise is unacceptable.

"Great job on another issue showing how dreams can become reality. Your articles help me to show my daughters that women have already opened new doors for them.  They have only to pick up the torch." 
                                                                   -- Patrick H.

Thanks, Patrick, and all of you who write in.  I SO appreciate this wonderful feedback.

Readers, please write to me at: Sheri@motherswhodream.com

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 WHAT'S NEW:
I've begun archiving the newsletter since early March. If you're a new subscriber, read through past issues at: 

www.motherswhodream.com/ArchivedNewsletters.htm

New to the site? Be sure to read the other MWD "feel good" articles. After all, who couldn't use a little sunshine?
www.motherswhodream.com/Articles.htm
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Sheri thoroughly enjoys reading your
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Feel free to share this newsletter, but please, forward it in its entirety. Everything in the Mothers Who Dream Newsletter and website is copyrighted by founder/author Sheri McGregor.

Request for Dreamers:
It's the month of May. MAYbe it's time to share your success story. If you're a mother who has pursued her dream, please share your story to inspire others. Share your story by emailing Sheri at:
Profiles@motherswhodream.com

Maybe you'll be next to inspire mothers (and fathers!) around the world!

All material on the www.motherswhodream.com website is copyrighted
by Sheri McGregor and may not be reproduced without express permission.